Archive for December, 2006

Dating for pre-arranged marriages

Posted in Insightson Dec 16, 2006

Today I thought up a troubling question; troubling only because I have yet to find an answer.

Do people in pre-arranged marriages need to date? If you were in a pre-arranged marriage, do you date and get to know your arranged fiance?

On one hand, dating can be a stressful activity, and one that could be avoided completely in a pre-arranged marriage situation. Not only that, but eliminating dating could be financially beneficial.

On the other hand, dating can be a fun activity where the couple can get to know each other. Even in a pre-arranged marriage, learning about the other person in various situations, including pre-marital and dating situations, could prove to be helpful later when married. Not only that, but the beginning stages of marriage can be difficult time merging two lives into a companionship, and dating before marriage could alleviate the difficulties during that phase.

Fortunately, this question doesn’t really need to be answered.

Giving up blogging

Posted in Bloggingon Dec 13, 2006

Just to be straight up clear: the title is a verb phrase, not an intention.

It is however a verb phrase that I’m contemplating.

I found out my grades for fall term, and they were ok. I was kind of hoping for a little higher, but I guess I would always hope for a little higher unless they were all As. But it put me in a mind set of looking forward to being at BYU and taking classes again.

2007 will definitely be a difficult year. There will be lots of change in my life. For one, I’m fully planning on graduating this year. What happens after that point, I don’t know yet. But there will be a lot of things different about my life twelve months from now. That is going to create a lot of stress as I adapt to the changes which I will find along my way.

One thing for sure, is I need to make sure that I’m an incredible student this studentupcoming semester. I’ve been thinking about what things I might need to do to promote academic success, and one of the things which crossed my mind was to give up blogging. I’m not yet sold on the idea, but I’m not going to discount it yet either. I guess I’m thinking out loud (in writing) about it here.

On one hand, I get this great sense of accomplishment from the one or two thousand people who read from my blog every month. This is well over double what it was a year ago, and I’ve learned a lot about what it takes to write for an audience. I also think that writing has helped keep my mind keen and fresh.

One the other hand, blogging can be a big distraction, especially the constant urge to continually check to see if there is a new comment. It is a further distraction if you include “reading other’s blogs” with the whole blogging verb. It takes time too. I think I average about 20 posts a month. If each post takes half an hour to write, then I’m spending 10 hours a month writing. An extra 10 hours a month spent on some of my classes sure would have helped.

On the first hand again, blogging could be viewed as a constructive way to blow off stress. It is relaxing, reflexive, and fun. I’m sure someone could even come up with an argument saying that blogging is healthy, but I don’t know that I would go that far. Not only that, but it is possible that I help other people when they read some of the things I have to say.

On the other hand again, if I were to compare blogging to other activities such as hiking, talking with friends, or watching a basketball game, blogging would lose. It definitely does not seem like a priority.

So as I finish my exploration through the various advantages and disadvantages of blogging, I’m still not quite sure what I should do. Obviously if I could keep the advantages while discarding the disadvantages then I would surely be better off.

Do you suppose praying about blogging is even appropriate?

I was reading various blogs this evening, and I saw that Google has released version 3 of their toolbar for Firefox.  I immediately thought, “Cool.”  So I went to my extensions menu in Firefox and selected “Find updates.”  Nothing happened.  I expected it to come back to me and say that there were some new updates available, but nope.  Not for any of my extensions which is kind of weird.  Maybe it is because I’m using a Mac.

Update: About 10 minutes later, I’m re-reading this, and I realize that I could have actually read the Google blog post.  They released the version 3 beta of the toolbar. That would certainly explain why it isn’t automatically updating in Firefox.  I guess I got over excited about it and posted before thinking.  How embarrassing.

Life Tracker

Posted in Technicalon Dec 12, 2006

As a software engineer, I use a project management tools like Trac to manage different aspects of my project, such as roadmaps, milestones, issues, documents, and the source.

I wonder, what if these software development tools were to be applied to a different type of project called: life.

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New type of address encoding

Posted in Technicalon Dec 9, 2006

I got this phishing attach in my inbox.  You know, one of those that look like they are from paypal or someone, but they really aren’t.  They give you links that they ask you to click on, except that the links don’t go to paypal’s server, they go to some other site that looks like paypal and tricks you into providing your login credentials.  None of this is new.

What is new is how they are providing the address in the link.  They provided the IP address in hex.  So if I were to represent the address to my server, it would be: http://0xcf.0×2d.0×41.0×24/

I thought this was very interesting, so I tried it in Firefox and Opera on my mac, and neither were tricked.  Both browser’s didn’t convert the hex to the real IP address, so it didn’t work.   But it makes me wonder if there are browsers out there that might be tricked by such IP address encoding.

Support the cause

Posted in Generalon Dec 8, 2006

I’m thinking about starting a new group on Facebook called:
Coalition in support of increased distribution of mistletoe.

By supporting this cause, you can help to put the joy back into Christmas for many college-aged students everywhere.

Leave a comment below if you support the cause.

Not everyone calls for retreat

Posted in Politicson Dec 7, 2006

The US involvement in Iraq is a sticky issue. One that I’m not completely prepared to comment on yet. It is pretty obvious, however, that a lot of people are calling for a return of US troops–a retreat.

Australia’s prime minister is not one of those people calling for such retreat. It is interesting to see what he has to say:

“For the West to pull out of Iraq in circumstances seen as defeat, would deliver an enormous boost to terrorism in the region and around the world, and would be a huge blow to American prestige, and that would have bad consequences for Australia.

“I think we need a strategy that makes certain that we don’t leave behind an outcome that is a victory for the terrorists and we leave behind [an] Iraq that has an opportunity as surviving as a democratic nation.”

What do you think?  Obviously no one is calling for troops to be in Iraq forever, but what should the time frame be, and what do you think the global consequences will be for the time frame you suggest?


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