I was looking back at a post that was never made public. There were a few brief phrases in the post that I think I’ll share. They are about crushes and dates.
I don’t really get crushes any more. I think it is because that few of my crushes have ever worked out. I’m usually just interested in a girl, and if things work out, I skip straight to liking them, skipping over the “crush” phase. Usually things don’t work out with girls that I’m interested in, which leaves me with just an interesting friend, which is ok, but not as great as something more.
I like dates where you really get to know someone. I don’t like movies as dates because usually you only get to find out if the person liked that particular movie or not. I like dates where you are forced to talk. I love hearing people talk. And I love finding out that I have something in common with someone. Like the other night, I made some comment about liking Jupiter, and immediately this girl knew that I was talking about Holst. That was hot. If I ever am interested in a girl, and she says that Jupiter was better than Mars, or if we share some other similarly obscure opinion, then I would probably fall head over feet in like with the particular girl.